When you grow it hits you sometimes right away...sometimes later. Growing is positive change. Everyone wants positive growth...so why are we so scared of change. If you are changing for the better whats the hold up? I know what I need but is that enough... The desire for want can misconstrue the direction your headed. Desire is the root of all evil, not money nor women. Desire is synonymous for addiction. When we desire, we sometimes choose to ignore whats good for us. Maybe our intentions are good but desire only lead downwards. If one wants to grow take away the desire and replace it with actions of positive intent. Creating ideas that can aspire you to grow is not the same as desire, in fact I like to call the word DREAMS.